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Intended Parent Requirements for Surrogacy
Golden Surrogacy welcomes Intended Parents from many backgrounds who are ready to pursue parenthood through a thoughtful, well supported surrogacy journey. Review the requirements below to better understand the standards we ask all Intended Parents to meet before moving forward.
These guidelines help create stronger matches, clearer communication, and a more stable experience for both the Intended Parents and the Surrogate.

At a Glance
Requirements at a Glance
These are the standards Golden asks all Intended Parents to meet before moving forward.
Program and Embryo Readiness
- Have an established need for gestational surrogacy
- Intended Parents may begin before choosing a clinic or completing embryo creation
- Have at least one PGT-tested embryo deemed suitable for transfer by the fertility clinic before match presentation
- Agree to Golden's single-embryo-transfer policy
Age and Foundational Readiness
- Have a maximum combined age of 110 for couples, or 54 for single individuals
- Be financially secure
- Have a stable living environment
- Have no criminal history
Support and Relationship Readiness
- Have the support of a spouse, partner, or close friends and family
- Maintain a respectful attitude toward the Surrogate and her commitment
- Be prepared for open, honest, and regular communication throughout the journey
- Be proficient in English for direct program and relationship communication
Process and Personal Readiness
- Have a general understanding of the gestational surrogacy process
- Complete all paperwork fully and in a timely manner
- Be willing to complete an Intended Parent psychoeducational consultation
- Be excited and ready to begin the journey
Before Match Presentation
Program and Embryo Readiness
Golden welcomes Intended Parents at different stages of family-building. Some families already have embryos and a fertility clinic when they contact us. Others are still selecting a clinic, choosing an egg donor, completing IVF cycles, or preparing to create embryos. You do not need to have every medical step completed before beginning a conversation with Golden.
An Established Need for Surrogacy
Golden accepts Intended Parents who have an established need for gestational surrogacy. That need may be physical, reproductive, anatomical, or psychological and includes Intended Parents for whom carrying a pregnancy is medically unsafe, medically inadvisable, or biologically impossible.
Single men, male couples, and other Intended Parents who cannot biologically carry a pregnancy are understood to have a qualifying reproductive need and should not be characterized as having a medical disorder.
Golden does not participate in elective or social surrogacy pursued solely to avoid pregnancy without an established need. If you are unsure whether your circumstances qualify, speak with your physician or licensed mental health professional and the Golden team.
Embryos Before Matching
Intended Parents may begin with Golden before selecting a fertility clinic, while completing IVF, while choosing an egg donor, or before embryos have been created.
Before Golden presents a Surrogate for match consideration, Intended Parents must have at least one PGT-tested embryo that their fertility clinic has deemed suitable for transfer.
Golden strongly recommends having three PGT-tested embryos considered suitable for transfer before matching. Surrogates frequently prefer a journey plan that provides more than one transfer opportunity, and embryo quantity may affect matching preferences and timing.
PGT does not guarantee implantation, pregnancy, or a medical outcome. The fertility clinic determines whether an embryo is suitable for transfer.
Single Embryo Transfer
Golden requires Intended Parents to proceed within a single-embryo-transfer framework. Golden does not accept Intended Parents seeking to transfer more than one embryo at a time to a Surrogate or intentionally pursue a twin pregnancy through double embryo transfer.
This policy reflects Golden’s commitment to the health and safety of the Surrogate and pregnancy and is consistent with professional guidance strongly recommending single embryo transfer in gestational-carrier cycles.
A fertility clinic remains responsible for medical treatment decisions, and the Surrogate retains authority over her medical care. Golden’s program policy determines which journeys the agency will accept and support.
A Mutual Decision
Requirements Support a Stronger Match
These standards are reviewed with you before moving forward so that both sides begin with the same understanding. Surrogacy is a mutual decision, made thoughtfully by the Intended Parents and the Surrogate together.
Golden’s matching model is relational rather than transactional. Intended Parents are expected to build genuine rapport with their Surrogate and remain in regular direct contact throughout the journey. Communication generally occurs weekly or every other week through text messages, phone calls, video conversations, medical-appointment participation, or in-person visits when practical and mutually agreed upon.
The exact communication style should be discussed during matching so that the Intended Parents and Surrogate begin with compatible expectations.
What These Standards Encourage
- Stronger mutual matches
- Direct relationship-building
- Regular communication throughout the journey
- Shared expectations before matching
- Respect for the Surrogate and her commitment
- Stable support systems
- Timely participation
- Better preparation for the journey
Communication in English
Golden welcomes domestic and international Intended Parents. Because Golden’s Surrogates live in the United States and most communicate primarily in English, Intended Parents must have sufficient English proficiency to understand program communications, participate directly in match and journey conversations, and build a meaningful relationship with their Surrogate.
This does not require perfect or native-level English. It requires enough proficiency to communicate directly, understand important information, ask questions, and participate in relationship-building without relying entirely on a third-party translator.
- Clear understanding of agency guidance
- More natural matching conversations
- Direct communication with the Surrogate
- Better participation in important journey discussions
- Stronger rapport and mutual trust
Age and Clinic Considerations
Golden’s Age Guidance
Each Intended Parent must be at least 21. Golden’s upper-age guidance is a maximum combined age of 110 for couples, or 54 for single individuals.
110
Maximum Combined Age, Couples
For Intended Parent couples, Golden’s guidance is a maximum combined age of 110. Circumstances outside this general guidance may be reviewed individually.
54
Maximum Age, Single Intended Parent
For a single Intended Parent, Golden’s guidance is a maximum age of 54. Golden welcomes single Intended Parents and supports them throughout the journey.
Fertility clinics apply their own health and age criteria, and those medical decisions belong to the clinic rather than to Golden. Golden’s age guidance and a clinic’s independent medical criteria are separate, and both may apply to your journey.
Emotional Preparation
Psychoeducational Consultation for Intended Parents
Often called an Intended Parent psychological assessment, this step is more accurately described as a psychoeducational consultation with a licensed reproductive mental health professional experienced in third-party reproduction.
It is typically a 50 to 60 minute session, although format and duration may vary by provider. The conversation prepares Intended Parents for the emotional, relational, social, and ethical aspects of a gestational surrogacy journey.
It is generally educational and preparatory rather than personality testing or ongoing therapy, and additional assessment or testing may still be recommended when a professional considers it appropriate.
What the Consultation Covers
- Family-building history and coping with uncertainty
- Communication, boundaries, and relationship expectations
- Medical decisions and sensitive circumstances
- Contact during pregnancy and after birth
- Privacy, disclosure, and the child's birth story
- Emotional-support resources and ongoing preparation
How This Differs From a Surrogate Psychological Evaluation
Intended Parent Psychoeducational Consultation
- Focuses on education, expectations, communication, coping, and preparedness
- Is generally conversational
- Is not ordinarily a personality test or formal diagnosis
- Is not ongoing therapy
- May lead to a consultation or clearance letter when requested by the clinic or agency
Surrogate Psychological Evaluation
- Is a formal component of Surrogate screening
- Includes a detailed clinical interview
- Reviews mental-health, relationship, support, social, and pregnancy history
- Generally includes standardized, validated psychometric testing
- Helps assess psychological readiness and identify concerns requiring further evaluation
Requirements vary by clinic and provider, so completion of the consultation should not be described as an automatic guarantee of medical clearance.
Every Path to Parenthood
Couples and Single Intended Parents
Golden works with couples and with single Intended Parents. Each Intended Parent must be at least 21. The same requirements apply across family structures, with upper-age guidance of a maximum combined age of 110 for couples or 54 for single individuals.
Legal and citizenship questions vary by circumstance and are addressed with your attorney rather than treated as additional requirements here.
After the Requirements
What Happens Next
1
Speak With Golden
Discuss your circumstances, goals, questions, and general readiness with the Golden team.
2
Complete the Readiness Process
Complete Golden’s required information, paperwork, readiness conversations, and Intended Parent psychoeducational consultation.
3
Prepare for a Mutual Match
When the appropriate preparations are complete, Golden can begin identifying a thoughtfully aligned Surrogate match.
Why Choose Golden Surrogacy
How Golden supports Intended Parents through the journey.
Surrogacy Process for Intended Parents
The coordinated stages from consultation through birth.
Surrogacy Costs
What the agency fee includes and how costs are structured.
Confirm Where You Stand
Review Your Requirements With Our Team
Share a few details and Golden will review the requirements with you and answer your questions. There is no obligation.
Get Started
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Common Questions
Intended Parent Requirement Questions
Direct answers to the questions Intended Parents ask most often about Golden’s requirements.
What are Golden's basic requirements for Intended Parents?
Golden requires each Intended Parent to be at least 21. Other requirements include an established need for gestational surrogacy, upper-age guidance of a maximum combined age of 110 for couples or 54 for single individuals, financial security, a stable living environment, no criminal history, supportive relationships, respect for the Surrogate and her commitment, a general understanding of the process, timely and complete paperwork, willingness to complete an Intended Parent psychoeducational consultation, English proficiency for direct communication, and readiness to begin. These standards exist so that Intended Parents and Surrogates enter a match with the same expectations.
What qualifies as a need for gestational surrogacy?
A need may be physical, reproductive, anatomical, or psychological, and includes circumstances where carrying a pregnancy is medically unsafe, medically inadvisable, or biologically impossible. Single men, male couples, and other Intended Parents who cannot biologically carry a pregnancy are understood to have a qualifying reproductive need. Golden reviews the circumstances you describe; your physician or licensed mental health professional evaluates your medical situation.
What does Golden mean by social surrogacy?
Social surrogacy refers to surrogacy pursued solely to avoid pregnancy without an established need. Golden does not participate in elective surrogacy of that kind, because the program is built around families for whom surrogacy is the path to parenthood. If you are unsure whether your circumstances qualify, speak with your physician or a licensed mental health professional and with the Golden team.
Can I begin with Golden before I have embryos or an IVF clinic?
Yes. You may begin with Golden before selecting a fertility clinic, while completing IVF, while choosing an egg donor, or before embryos have been created. Starting the conversation early lets Golden explain the process and timing while your medical planning continues with your clinic.
How many embryos do I need before Golden can present a Surrogate match?
At least one PGT-tested embryo that your fertility clinic has deemed suitable for transfer. This is required before Golden presents a Surrogate for match consideration so that a match can move forward without an open-ended medical timeline. The clinic, not Golden, determines whether an embryo is suitable for transfer.
Why does Golden recommend having three PGT-tested embryos before matching?
Because Surrogates frequently prefer a journey plan that provides more than one transfer opportunity. Three PGT-tested embryos considered suitable for transfer is a strong recommendation rather than the minimum requirement, and embryo quantity may affect matching preferences and timing. PGT does not guarantee implantation, pregnancy, or any medical outcome.
Does Golden permit more than one embryo to be transferred at a time?
No. Golden works within a single-embryo-transfer framework and does not accept Intended Parents seeking to transfer more than one embryo at a time or to intentionally pursue a twin pregnancy through double embryo transfer. This program policy reflects Golden’s commitment to the health and safety of the Surrogate and the pregnancy, and is consistent with ASRM guidance strongly recommending single embryo transfer in gestational-carrier cycles. Medical treatment decisions remain with the fertility clinic, and the Surrogate retains authority over her medical care. Review ASRM Guidance on Gestational Carrier Cycles .
Why does Golden require English-language proficiency?
Because Golden’s Surrogates live in the United States and most communicate primarily in English. Golden welcomes domestic and international Intended Parents, and native-level English is not expected. What is needed is enough proficiency to understand program communications, ask questions, participate directly in match and journey conversations, and build rapport without relying entirely on a third-party translator.
How much contact does Golden expect Intended Parents to have with their Surrogate?
Regular direct contact throughout the journey, generally weekly or every other week. That contact may take the form of text messages, phone calls, video conversations, participation in medical appointments, or in-person visits when practical and mutually agreed upon. The specific style and frequency are discussed during matching so both sides begin with compatible expectations.
Is there an age limit for Intended Parents?
Each Intended Parent must be at least 21. Golden’s upper-age guidance is a maximum combined age of 110 for couples, or 54 for single individuals. Fertility clinics also apply their own health and age criteria, which are separate from Golden’s program guidance. Circumstances outside Golden’s general guidance may be reviewed individually.
Can single Intended Parents work with Golden?
Yes. Golden works with couples and single Intended Parents who meet the agency’s requirements and are prepared for the responsibilities of a surrogacy journey. Each Intended Parent must be at least 21. Golden’s upper-age guidance is a maximum combined age of 110 for couples or a maximum age of 54 for a single Intended Parent. Family structure does not reduce the importance of financial readiness, a stable living environment, a strong support system, communication readiness, psychological preparation, and mutual-match compatibility.
Is a psychological assessment required for Intended Parents?
Yes. Golden requires Intended Parents to complete the step commonly described as a psychological assessment. For Intended Parents, however, this is generally a psychoeducational consultation with a reproductive mental health professional rather than the formal psychological evaluation completed by a Surrogate.
The consultation covers family-building history, coping, communication and boundaries with the Surrogate, sensitive medical decisions, contact and disclosure, and support resources. It is educational and preparatory rather than a personality test or ongoing therapy.
A Surrogate’s evaluation is more extensive and generally includes a detailed clinical interview and standardized psychometric testing. The full comparison appears in the psychoeducational consultation section above.
What does financially secure mean for a Golden surrogacy journey?
It means having the resources in place to fund the full program you select, including agency fees, Surrogate compensation and expenses, legal costs, and insurance, rather than only the first stage of the journey. Golden publishes complete program pricing so you can plan before matching. Review the Surrogacy Costs page for the full breakdown.
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