Planning Your Surrogacy Journey: New Year Considerations
December 23, 2025 by Frank Golden
As 2026 approaches, many Illinois couples and individuals are considering surrogacy to build their families! The new year feels like the perfect time to take that leap, but smart planning now will set you up for success.
Surrogacy is a beautiful journey, but it requires careful preparation across multiple areas. From financial planning to emotional readiness, there’s a lot to consider before diving in!
Let’s walk through the key areas you should focus on as you plan your surrogacy journey for the new year.
Get Your Finances in Order First!
Money talk isn’t fun, but it’s absolutely essential! Surrogacy costs in Illinois typically range from $150,000 to $250,000, depending on your specific situation.
Here’s how those numbers break down:
- Surrogate compensation: $50,000 to $80,000+
- Surrogate Insurance: $15,000 to $40,000
- Medical and IVF costs: $20,000 to $40,000
- Legal fees: $10,000 to $15,000
- Agency fees: $40,000 to $50,000
The key is planning for the unexpected! Set aside an additional 10-15% beyond your initial budget for surprise expenses.
Consider opening a dedicated escrow account early. This helps you manage payments systematically and keeps everything organized throughout the process!

Many Intended Parents also explore financing options. Some agencies offer payment plans, and there are specialized fertility loans available. Start researching these options now so you’re not scrambling later!
Legal Groundwork Starts Now
Don’t wait on the legal stuff! In Illinois, surrogacy laws are generally favorable, but you still need proper legal representation from day one. If working with us, your dedicated Care Team at Golden Surrogacy will assist Intended Parents and Surrogates with this process at the appropriate milestone.
Your legal to-do list includes:
- Hiring experienced reproductive law counsel
- Understanding Illinois surrogacy regulations
- Planning for pre-birth parentage orders
- Reviewing insurance coverage requirements
A solid surrogacy contract protects everyone involved! It outlines compensation, medical decisions, and parental rights clearly. This isn’t the place to cut corners!
Starting legal prep early gives you time to understand the process without feeling rushed. Illinois has specific requirements that vary from other states, so local expertise matters!
Medical and Psychological Screening Takes Time
Both you and your potential Surrogate will go through comprehensive screening! This process typically takes 1-3 months, so factor that into your timeline.
Your Surrogate will need:
- Complete medical evaluation and obstetric history review
- Infectious disease testing
- Psychological assessment to confirm readiness
- Background checks and lifestyle evaluation
As Intended Parents, you’ll also have medical consultations to review embryo options and treatment plans.
The screening phase can feel overwhelming, but it’s designed to ensure the best possible outcome for everyone! Trust the process and use this time to prepare mentally too.

Choose Your Path: Agency vs Independent
This is a huge decision that impacts your entire experience! Working with a surrogacy agency in Illinois provides structured support, professional matching, and coordinated care.
Agency benefits include:
- Experienced case managers guiding you through each step
- Pre-screened Surrogate candidates
- Built-in psychological support and counseling
- Streamlined communication through secure platforms
Going independent offers more control but requires you to handle screening, legal coordination, and logistics yourself.
Most first-time Intended Parents benefit from agency support! The expertise and guidance are invaluable during such an emotional journey.
If you’re considering Golden Surrogacy, we’d love to discuss your goals and answer your questions. Our team has helped countless Illinois Intended Parents and Surrogates navigate this process successfully!
Emotional Preparation Is Just as Important
Surrogacy brings incredible joy, but it’s also an emotional rollercoaster! Preparing mentally now will help you handle the ups and downs ahead.
Key areas to focus on:
- Setting realistic expectations about timelines and setbacks
- Building a support network of family, friends, and professionals
- Considering counseling to process your fertility journey
- Planning how you’ll communicate with your Surrogate
Many Intended Parents benefit from joining support groups or connecting with others who’ve been through surrogacy. You’re not alone in this journey!
The relationship with your Surrogate is unique and special. Think about what kind of communication feels right for you – some prefer regular updates, while others want space to let things unfold naturally.

Understand the Timeline Reality
Here’s the truth: surrogacy isn’t quick! From start to finish, most journeys take 18-24 months.
Here’s a realistic breakdown:
- Finding and matching with a Surrogate: 6-12+ months
- Medical screening and legal contracts: 3-4 months
- Medical preparation and embryo transfer: 1-2 months
- Pregnancy and delivery: 9 months
Starting your search in early 2026 could mean holding your baby in late 2026 or 2027. Plan accordingly and don’t rush the process!
The matching phase varies most widely. Some Intended Parents find their perfect Surrogate quickly, while others take more time to find the right fit. Quality over speed every time! Also, keep in mind that the Intended Parent Timeline and Surrogate Timeline are uniquely different.
Take Action This December
Ready to move forward? Here’s your December action plan:
Week 1: Consult with your reproductive physician to discuss surrogacy as a path forward
Week 2: Research and contact 2-3 surrogacy agencies for consultations
Week 3: Finalize your budget and explore financing options
Week 4: Complete your research and make a surrogacy agency selection
Starting these steps before the new year puts you ahead of the game! You’ll enter 2026 with clarity and momentum.
Don’t forget to take care of yourselves emotionally during this time. The decision to pursue surrogacy often comes after a long fertility journey. Be patient and kind with yourselves as you plan this next chapter!
Your Illinois Surrogacy Journey Awaits
The new year represents new possibilities for your family! With proper planning and the right support team, 2026 could be the year your dreams become reality.
Surrogacy in Illinois offers many advantages with supportive laws and experienced professionals. Take advantage of the resources available to you!
Whether you’re just starting to consider surrogacy or ready to take concrete steps, thorough preparation makes all the difference. Your future family is worth the investment in planning and patience.
The journey ahead is challenging but incredibly rewarding. Start planning now, and you’ll be amazed at how much progress you can make in the coming year!
