2026 surrogacy journey guidance for intended parents and gestational surrogates

Your Surrogacy Journey in 2026: What to Know

Start your surrogacy journey in 2026 with confidence. Learn about matching, timelines, costs, and support from Golden Surrogacy.

January 6, 2026
red flags to avoid when choosing a surrogacy agency in Illinois

Best Surrogacy Agency in Illinois: 5 Red Flags to Avoid

Looking for a surrogacy agency in Illinois? Learn the 5 red flags to avoid when choosing the right agency for your family-building journey.

December 30, 2025
intended parents planning surrogacy journey new year family building

Planning Your Surrogacy Journey: New Year Considerations

Thinking about surrogacy in Illinois? Discover key considerations for Intended Parents before starting your journey in the new year.

December 23, 2025
99% Success Rate in Surrogacy

Choosing a Successful Surrogacy Agency

When you’re starting your surrogacy journey, it’s natural to want some solid numbers. A lot of Intended Parents ask questions …

August 22, 2025
Top Surrogacy Agencies to Know in 2025

Top Surrogacy Agencies to Know in 2025

Choosing the right surrogacy agency is a big decision. After all, it’s the team that will be by your side through …

June 3, 2025
Surrogate requirements

Surrogate Requirements: Putting People over Profits

“Why are Golden’s Surrogate requirements so strict?”

February 26, 2025
What states do surrogates come from

Exploring Surrogacy-Friendly States in the US

Wondering where Surrogates come from?

February 24, 2025
Frank Golden of Golden Surrogacy Explains the Importance of Surrogacy Professionals.

Surrogacy Professionals: Experience Matters

Hey, you! Yeah, the one scrolling through surrogacy forums like they’re the ultimate guide.

January 30, 2025
Frank Golden of Golden Surrogacy Explaining Why Women Become Surrogates.

Why Women Become Surrogates?

“Why do women become Surrogates?”

January 23, 2025
Frank Golden of Golden Surrogacy explains why Intended Parents should hire surrogacy agencies.

Why Intended Parents Hire Surrogacy Agencies

Why do Intended Parents choose an agency like Golden instead of going independent?

January 23, 2025
Why you should listen to me

Choosing the Right Surrogacy Agency for Your Family

Why should you listen to me???⁠

January 23, 2025
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Expert Advice: What to Consider When Choosing a Fertility Clinic

Are you shopping for a fertility clinic? Here’s our advice:

January 22, 2025
Fertility clinic red flags

Finding the Best Fertility Clinic for Your Surrogacy Journey

🚩 Red flags in fertility clinic selection 🚩

January 22, 2025
HOW TO BECOME AN INTENDED PARENT

Become a Parent with Golden: A Step-by-Step Guide

First steps are hard. As a surrogacy agency, we’ve held the hands of countless Intended Parents as they’ve taken their first steps on their journey towards parenthood. Trust us, we’re pros😉

January 22, 2025
Experience is everything

The Importance of Experience in Surrogacy

EXPERIENCE, EXPERIENCE, EXPERIENCE! Trust us, it matters.

January 22, 2025
How long does it take to be matched

Matching with a Surrogate: How Long Does it Take?

Matching with a Surrogate isn’t like swiping left or right on Tinder. It’s a thoughtful process that demands time and attention.

January 22, 2025
Fertility clinic green flags

Choosing the Right Fertility Clinic: Key Factors to Consider

If you’re an Intended Parent looking for a fertility clinic to partner with, here are a couple of key factors to consider.

January 22, 2025
What happens after delivery

Delivery: What to Expect After Surrogacy

Surrogacy journey. Delivery. Congrats! But what’s next?🤔

January 22, 2025
How to navigate conversations with strangers

Breaking Down Surrogacy Conversations with Strangers

See how we navigate conversations with strangers? Very mindful. Very demure.⁠

January 22, 2025
Things they don't tell you after you have the baby

How to Prepare for Parenthood After a Surrogacy Journey

After the baby arrives there are a few things they don’t always prepare you for. But you know what?

January 22, 2025
How much money is needed

Money Matters: Understanding the Cost of a Surrogacy Journey

Ever bought something without checking the price tag first? Yeah, not the smartest move.

January 22, 2025
Additional surrogacy costs

Understanding Surrogacy Costs: A Comprehensive Guide

I have 40,000 reasons why you should book a consultation with us at Golden!

January 22, 2025
bring your own surrogate

Choosing Your Own Surrogate at Golden Surrogacy

Yes, you heard it right! At Golden Surrogacy, you have the option to bring your own Surrogate.⁠

January 16, 2025
How Intended Parents can prepare for the birth

Intended Parents: Don’t Overlook These Surrogacy Tips

Your long-awaited moment is almost here, and we’ve got you covered with two GOLDEN tips that often get overlooked by Intended Parents✨⁠

January 16, 2025
Intended Parents you need to do this

Intended Parents: Nurturing Emotional Well-being in Surrogacy

Let’s address an important aspect of surrogacy: emotional well-being. ⁠

January 16, 2025
sibling journeys

Sibling Journey: Should You Use the Same Surrogate Again?

So you’re thinking about expanding your family through a sibling journey! CONGRATS!

January 16, 2025
stop making this mistake!

Intended Parents: A Comprehensive Guide to Surrogacy Costs

Avoid this common mistake, Intended Parents!⁠

January 16, 2025
talking to your kids about surrogacy

Talking to Children about Surrogacy: A Guide for Parents

Speaking with your children about their origin story or the surrogacy journey that brought them into your arms is a crucial conversation.⁠

January 16, 2025
When Intended Parents should give up

Intended Parents: Never Give Up on Your Surrogacy Journey

When should you throw in the towel and end your surrogacy journey? The answer is simple: NEVER.⁠

January 16, 2025
Using the same egg donor

Choosing the Same Egg Donor for Sibling Journeys: Is it Worth it?

One of the questions we often hear is whether you should use the same egg donor for your sibling journey. Let’s dive into it!⁠

January 16, 2025
What your Intended Parents aren't telling you

Surrogates: The Key to Successful Communication in Surrogacy

There might be somethings that your Intended Parents are not telling you… Let’s talk about it.⁠

January 16, 2025
What your Surrogate isn't telling you

Intended Parents: Appreciating Surrogates’ Selflessness

Intended Parents, it’s time to get a little closer and understand the unspoken truth. Your amazing Surrogate is treating this pregnancy with utmost care, even more than her own.⁠

January 15, 2025
When to start thinking about a second journey

Sibling Journey: Expanding Your Family Through Surrogacy

Intended Parents, it’s never too early to begin considering your second surrogacy journey or expanding your family with a sibling journey.⁠

January 15, 2025
You're not saving money with twins

Why Double Embryo Transfer May Not Be the Best Option

Intended Parents, let’s talk about the idea of having twins through a double embryo transfer🤔👶👶⁠

January 15, 2025
98% uncomplicated births

Our Enhanced Surrogate Criteria Leads to 98% Vaginal Deliveries

Let me tell you how we ensure that 98% of our Surrogates have uncomplicated vaginal deliveries.⁠

January 15, 2025
Your Surrogate is not a car

Matching with a Surrogate: It’s Not a Car Lot

“I’ll take the blue one with leather interior and the ultra-premium sound system!”⁠

January 15, 2025
Can my sister be my Surrogate

Using Your Sister as a Surrogate: Things to Think About

Short answer: yes!⁠

January 15, 2025

Premium Services with Golden Surrogacy

Did you know that on average a Surrogate is working with our agency for 3-4 months prior to being matched?⁠

January 15, 2025
Surrogacy vs adoption

Surrogacy vs. Adoption: Exploring Different Paths to Parenthood

Surrogacy vs. adoption. Let’s talk about it!⁠

January 15, 2025
What should I know going in

Tips for Intended Parents Starting their Surrogacy Journey

Speaking as a former Intended Parent, there is so much that you do not know.⁠

January 15, 2025
What states do Surrogates come from

Regional Matching: Finding the Perfect Surrogate

There is nothing more stressful as an Intended Parent than trying to determine the logistics of coming home with your newborn.⁠

January 15, 2025
3 tips for selecting an egg donor

Egg Donor Selection: The Top 3 Criteria to Consider

If you are looking for an egg donor, you are going to want to watch this!⁠

January 14, 2025
99% success rate

The Golden Secret to a 99% Match Rate

We have a 99% match rate, baby!⁠

January 14, 2025
Advice following the embryo transfer

Everything You Need to Know About Embryo Transfer

Repeat after me: everything will happen as it’s meant to✨⁠

January 14, 2025
Escrow Funds 101

Escrow Funds: Protecting Surrogates and Intended Parents

Why does so much money have to go into the Escrow Account?⁠

January 14, 2025
Surrogate requirement

Find Your Perfect Surrogate with Golden’s Stringent Requirements

Taking home a baby 🤝 preserving the health and safety of your Surrogate⁠

January 14, 2025
The Egg Donation Process

Why In-house Egg Donation Programs Are Worth Considering

We get so many questions asking if we do egg donation here at Golden.⁠

January 13, 2025
The fertility center we recommend

Choosing the Best Fertility Centers: What You Need to Know

“Frank, which are the best fertility centers?”⁠

January 13, 2025
The Golden Guarantee

Discover the Golden Guarantee Program for Intended Parents

I have WONDERFUL news for Intended Parents about our Golden Guarantee Program!⁠

January 13, 2025
The hardest part of being an Intended Parent

How to Handle the Waiting Game as an Intended Parent

They say patience is a virtue. I don’t know who “they” are but they clearly were not an Intended Parent.⁠

January 13, 2025
Why you need 3+ embryos

Surrogacy: The Importance of Genetically Tested Embryos

If you are considering surrogacy it is really important you have 3 genetically tested embryos going into the matching phase.⁠

January 13, 2025
Why you should listen to me

Find the Perfect Surrogacy Agency for Your Journey

Trust me, I know what I’m talking about. That is because I was once an Intended Parent.⁠

January 13, 2025
Why your agency doesn't have to be local

The Key Factors in Choosing a Surrogacy Agency

Psttt! The right surrogacy agency for you isn’t always the agency that is the closest!⁠

January 13, 2025
Busting Surrogacy Myths part 2

Busting Surrogacy Myths part 2

If I had a dime for every time someone asked, “But isn’t the Surrogate the baby’s real mom?” I’d probably have enough to …

December 17, 2024
Frank Golden of Golden Surrogacy discussing important questions to ask when considering a sibling surrogacy journey.

Sibling Surrogacy Journeys

For many Intended Parents, welcoming a child through surrogacy is a life-changing experience, and sometimes, it’s so rewarding that …

November 27, 2024
Surrogacy Fundamentals

Surrogacy Fundamentals

If you follow Golden Surrogacy on Instagram, you might have come across our Surrogacy 101clips, those quick, one-minute videos …

October 30, 2024
Choosing an Egg Donor

Choosing an Egg Donor

Let’s talk about the most important part of your surrogacy journey, and it’s a step that happens even before you start working with a surrogacy agency.

October 2, 2024
Who Can't Be a Surrogate

Who Can’t Be a Surrogate

Only about 2% of those reading this will meet the qualifications to become a Surrogate with Golden. As the director of a surrogacy agency …

July 29, 2024
A world map, a camera, a compass, flowers, and a travel notebook with stamps laying flat on a white surface.

Surrogacy Escrow: The Complete Guide

Embarking on a surrogacy journey as Intended Parents is a significant and complex process that requires careful planning …

July 24, 2024
How Long Does It Take to Be Matched?

How Long Does It Take to Be Matched

Beginning the surrogacy journey, the matching phase is a big deal—it’s brimming with anticipation and hope for both Intended Parents and …

June 24, 2024
Frank Golden of Golden Surrogacy provides a surrogacy cost breakdown to help Intended Parents financially plan for their surrogacy journey.

Surrogacy Cost Breakdown

Picture this: you are saving up for the house of your dreams, a goal that may seem out of reach at first, but with careful planning …

May 30, 2024
Frank Golden of Golden Surrogacy educates Intended Parents on 3 hidden cost categories of additional expenses to be aware of when budgeting for a surrogacy journey.

Surrogacy Costs: Additional Expenses

As a director of a surrogacy agency, I’ve seen firsthand how the concept of surrogacy costs can catch many Intended Parents off guard …

May 6, 2024
“Everyone Deserves a Family”

“Everyone Deserves a Family”

Over 10 years ago, the birth of Frank and Adam’s daughter lit a spark that ignited the inspiration …

July 28, 2023
Managing Expectations as An Intended Parent

Managing Expectations as An Intended Parent

No one likes to hear that their expectations are unrealistic. This is especially true for …

July 21, 2023
Frank Golden of Golden Surrogacy provides an overview of surrogacy costs.

How Much Does Surrogacy Cost?

The question, “How much does surrogacy cost” can be intimidating. If you are an Intended Parent …

July 14, 2023
Why Your Agency Does Not Need to Be Local

Why Your Agency Does Not Need to Be Local

Imagine this: you just got diagnosed with a severe health condition. Your doctor recommends …

July 7, 2023
Remaining Friends After the Journey

Remaining Friends After the Journey

Embarking on a surrogacy journey is a remarkable and unique path towards parenthood.

June 30, 2023
Busting Surrogacy Myths part 1

Busting Surrogacy Myths part 1

“Women only become Surrogates for the money.” Have you ever heard someone say this?

June 23, 2023
Green Flags and Red Flags in Surrogacy Agencies

Green Flags and Red Flags in Surrogacy Agencies

What are good attributes of a surrogacy agency? What should I look out for to avoid? These questions get asked a lot …

June 9, 2023
The Surrogacy Journey Overview

The Surrogacy Journey Overview

Despite its growing popularity, I’ve noticed that many of our Intended Parents have questions about egg donation …

March 15, 2023
Intended Parent Requirements

Intended Parent Requirements

This is a PSA for anyone hoping to become a parent through gestational surrogacy. Being a parent is hard work.

March 15, 2023
Where Do I Start?

Where Do I Start?

The surrogacy journey is a complex process with many different phases that all come with potential roadblocks.

March 15, 2023
What Makes Us Different?

What Makes Us Different

What makes Golden Surrogacy different from every other surrogacy agency? If you are currently looking for a surrogacy agency …

March 15, 2023
My Surrogacy Story

My Surrogacy Story

Hello! My name is Frank Golden. Maybe you already knew that, maybe this is our first introduction. Whether you know me personally …

March 15, 2023

Selecting an Egg Donor

Despite its growing popularity, I’ve noticed that many of our Intended Parents have questions about egg donation …

March 4, 2019

Second Journeys

When Adam and I first started this agency, we didn’t expect to see much returning ….

February 5, 2019
Two dads with their daughter and son smile holding a "Camp Out" sign.

Our Second Year at CampOut Family Camp

It’s official: I love camp. Last year, Adam and I took our family to CampOut Family …

October 12, 2018
pregnant woman holds ultrasound.

What to Expect When Your Surrogate is Expecting

Surrogacy journeys are exciting. They embody hope, joy, and in many cases, pride. They can also embody anxiety and a sense of uncertainty.

July 18, 2018

Men Having Babies 2018 Chicago Expo

On April 15th, 2018 my team and I attended the Men Having Babies Chicago Expo…

June 11, 2018
Pregnant woman with a flower crown stands in front of the sunset as her dress blows.

Unravelling The Surrogacy Journey

I remember a time when I had no idea what Surrogacy was or what it entailed…

April 3, 2018

Choosing a Last Name: I Now Pronounce You Parents

We’re in a changing world. It’s interesting- as gay marriage became legal and more gay couples are getting married…

March 7, 2018
couple stands next to each other looking at the sun set between them.

The First Steps in Your Surrogacy Journey

Immediately before and immediately after we ring in the new year, our agency experiences a flux of inquiries from potential Intended Parents…

January 5, 2018
microphone on orange background with the words "GOLDEN GOSSIP."

Bringing Service Back

Many surrogacy agencies lack basic customer service skills and focus on quantity rather than quality. In this episode…

September 12, 2017
two dads hold their daughter and son with a "Camp Out" sign.

My Experience at an LGBT Family Camp

Summer camp was not part of my childhood experience. For Adam, it was. Every summer, for four weeks, Adam attended …

September 8, 2017
microphone on orange background with the words "GOLDEN GOSSIP."

Everyone Deserves a Family: Our Experience at CampOut!

CampOut is an overnight camp for LGBT families, hosted by the Lake of the Woods & Greenwoods Camp located in Decatur, Michigan…

August 30, 2017
gold phone on white background.

Preparing For Your Matching Call

Most of us can relate to “first date jitters”. You’re nervous. You’re excited. You’re a little bit hopeful…

August 23, 2017
microphone on orange background with the words "GOLDEN GOSSIP."

Matching Calls: What To Know

Matching calls are a necessary and exciting part of the Surrogacy process. In this segment…

August 15, 2017
pregnant woman holds her stomach next to spilled popcorn and caution tape on a lightning bolt background.

Breaking Down Hollywood’s Depiction of Surrogacy

A young couple struggles to have a family. They undergo multiple treatments and procedures, all of which are unsuccessful…

July 19, 2017
two women sit on a couch talking.

Meeting the First IVF Babies

Saturday, June 17th, I attended the Midwest Reproductive Symposium International’s 2017 Conference held in downtown Chicago…

June 27, 2017
microphone on orange background with the words "GOLDEN GOSSIP."

Pregnancy to Parenthood: An Interview with Amy Riley, Author & Pregnancy Coach

Amy Riley, pregnancy coach and author of “Loving the Pregnant You”, visits the studio to discuss pregnancy coaching, parenting, and Surrogacy. In this segment…

June 13, 2017
dad holds baby boy while sitting next to his daughter.

My Happy Gay Family

After writing my last blog on celebrating Mother’s Day as a gay father, I realized that there was so much more I wanted to say regarding gay parenting…

June 7, 2017
two dads smile with their daughter between them.

Surviving Mother’s Day as a Gay Dad

Going into parenthood as a gay man, I understood that my children would have an upbringing different than other children and different than my own…

May 17, 2017
microphone on orange background with the words "GOLDEN GOSSIP."

Fertility Centers of Illinois: Nurse’s Perspective

Kelly Del Valle, of Fertility Centers of Illinois, pays Golden Surrogacy a visit to discuss her role as a Third Party Reproduction Coordinator. In this segment…

May 11, 2017
father kissing his toddler on the cheek.

Getting Through Failed Transfers

My personal path to parenthood has not been easy. This is partly because I’m a gay male, but even more so…

May 10, 2017
family photo of two dads with their daughter and son.

Telling Your Child They’re a Surro-baby

I often get asked the question, “How did you or how will you tell your children that they were born via Surrogacy?” For me, the answer is easy…

April 5, 2017
close-up of two hands holding another hand.

The Relationship between Intended Parents and Surrogates

The experience of going through a surrogacy journey is life changing. A bond is formed between a woman and a couple or individual…

March 8, 2017
close-up of the IVF process.

IVF Clinic Referrals

At Golden Surrogacy, we work with only the best IVF clinics in each region. There are key elements we strongly consider before making a referral…

February 15, 2017
pregnant surrogate smiles on bed between two dads.

Five-year Anniversary of Embryo Transfer

This past weekend, Frank and Adam celebrated the five-year anniversary (02/11/2012) of their very first life-changing embryo transfer.

February 13, 2017
pile of american dollar bills.

Evolving Surrogate Base Compensation

With the first successful gestational surrogate pregnancy, having been roughly 30 years ago, surrogacy as a family building method remains a relatively new concept in the medical field…

February 8, 2017
medical records on a shelf.

Surrogate Medical Records and Chain of Custody

Throughout my years operating Golden Surrogacy, I have noticed many agencies, big and small, having surrogate applicants request their own medical records…

January 27, 2017
graphic of women looking up at the words "WRONG" and "RIGHT."

Ethical Screening Guidelines for Surrogates

The process of gestational surrogacy has many moving parts that must synchronize in near perfect rhythm to reach the ultimate goal of producing a baby…

December 13, 2016